Talk to your couple

Sex is an essential component of any romantic relationship, but it can also be a source of anxiety, confusion, and even conflict. Many couples struggle to communicate openly and honestly about their sexual desires, preferences, and concerns, which can lead to misunderstandings, frustration, and disappointment.

If you can relate to these circumtances, the worst you can do is avoid having a chat with your partner. You might being asking why, well, it's easy to answer. Avoiding this chat will increase the problems between you and your partner, because disagreements, discomforts and mindset shocks will be like a snowball, they will grow and grow until they explode in your faces and probably they will make you two hate each other, and no body wants that.

We will provide some tips and strategies for talking to your partner about sex in a healthy and productive way. We will discuss how to create a safe and non-judgmental space for these conversations, how to express your needs and desires effectively, and how to listen and respond to your partner's concerns. By the end of this post, you should feel more confident and comfortable about discussing sex with your partner, and you may even discover new ways to enhance your sexual relationship. So let's get started!

{Do no let "nothing" dominates your relationship}

One of the biggest problems come after the famous "NOTHING", but it is not only said by women, men also say it a lot!

When we say nothing to our partner, most times is because we do not want to create a bigger problem for something we do or not do, like our partner does. So, the best you can do if your partner says "nothing", is to tell how you feel and you realize that you screw up something (maybe you know or not) and it's important to you that your partner tells you what's is going, because if your partner does not say it, you will continue screwing things up. Sometimes the best card you have to play, is to admit we (men) are stupid and don't realize about those little things that make angry or sad our partners.

{Tell each other what you two like and don't like}

This is very important, because by knowing this you two can achieve a midpoint and everybody will be satisfied and happy, because one is doing and effort to make happy the other one and viceversa.

You must be fully honest when sharing this, giving bits of info will not be useful and will create more problems.

By doing this no one will feel and think that only one is doing the best for the relationship.

{Make jokes with previous chats}

A tool that is used in comedy very often is th "CALLBACK". This means making a joke about they said moments ago in the show. So you can turn this into your chats with your couple. You can use something talked days, weeks, months or years ago. This is a very powerful weapon, because you will make your couple laughing and will show that you pay attention in what your partner says to you.

Before making a callback, you have to be sure that you can make a joke about what she/he said. PLEASE, DO NOT MAKE A JOKE ON SOMETHING MAKES HER/HIM CRY, ANGRY OR FEELING DISGUSTED.

There you go. From now on, the two of you will feel safe and will open wide to share deepest things.

Don't forget this champ, being a partner is to be support, a friend and a lover.